Showing posts with label commitment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label commitment. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Project Marriage and Love


So you want to know what Terick and I been up to? It is easy, enjoying life and each others company and companionship. We just had a water fight last night, not to mention that I started it. It was so fun I must add. He is truly my best friend, and partner in crime. The unscripted Bonnie and Clyde. I will be the first to say it feel so good to be living right and enjoying the joys of what God has in store for us. Why has it been so long since the last blog? It is simple, I been getting so spoiled lately haven’t taken the time to sit down and write about the goodness of love. I was looking at our wedding album and was thinking… wow this was us a few months back. We finally made the ultimate commitment to each other marriage. What a blessing. It was so many doubts in the air, so many untouched fears, that we survived it all. I remember only a few years back when I was down and out and Camellia was like “Dallas, I know you don’t see it, but it will be okay. Keep the ring.” She was the only one fasting and praying when others said move on. (I see me now saying the same thing. Camellia and Kevin, “DO YOU!”) We have some many things to be so thankful for this year we don’t know where to start. I had so many huge plans for this year that God said wait a minute I got something better. So those huge plans had to be pushed back to all the ultimate deliverance. The expansion of the Royal Family. I pray that each of you reading this blog find your happiness. Truly understand it and hold on and let nothing stop you from God’s glory. I commend all my friends in positive and healthy relationships and marriages. In this day and age people don’t encourage marriage and healthily relationships. I do. Everyone deserves to be happy and someone to love them unconditional. It always starts with you loving yourself first. You have to love yourself and understand your heart and desires. Terick soothes me, he sees my soul, raw and unpolished and he loves it all. Good and bad. I do the same for him. Take time to dig in your soul and take a real evaluation of you. It is not too late to get it together and get on Project happiness.

Until next time,
Queen Dallas, proudly of the Douglas Royal Family
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P.S. I almost forgot. The vacation was so much needed; Terick family is so awesome, inspirational, loving and God-fearing. I never felt so comfortable. Not once did I feel out of place, I always felt like I was with family. I can only inspire to have Terick and I family the same. So loving, so very loving. I felt at peace, like this is where I belong. I really didn’t want to leave. It gave me so much though on the future and what will Terick and I will be doing when we age. One of my goals is to ensure that my husband feels the same way with my family. Even though, I seem to be the ultimate black sheep that is no excuse for family to at least not speak and BE SOCIALABLE. It is only my mom side not my dad side, not all of them only a small hand full. So I will pray on it and hopefully my Madea side doesn’t come out.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Inspiration

Song: Grace and Mercy by: Marvin Sapp

What an inspiration was it to look at the new President and First Lady of United States of America. What a proud day, and even the saddest heart had to smile yesterday. It was such an honor to witness history, I can’t wait to tell our children the day mommy and daddy watched an African American become the FIRST president. God is GOOD. I hope he inspires all to reach for the stars and seek all the education you can. The part that I take from his speech is to leave all CHILDISH things behind! I can not agree more. I am happy for the display of affection he shows for his wife and hope more see it is okay to love your wife or your husband.
I may go through many things but I must say I stand 100% behind my husband through thick and thin. I love him dearly and can not wait until you see the transformation and new beginnings we are able to share soon. Today I just want to say thank you for the support, from past and present associates and friends. May you all have a bless day and hope something inspires you to live right and seek better.

Until next time,
Queen Dallas (The First Lady of the Royal Douglas Family)

Thursday, January 15, 2009

To My Emperor

Today was a day of reflections and memories. I have had the ultimate pleasure to be loved by such a caring man. As know people we have our moment when we just do not click but that is Leo’s. We are definitely a lion couple. I must say we may bump heads and about to bite each other head off, but I stand before the world, internet world and say I love this man. I love this man more than words can explain and if I have to loose it all, with materials things, friends, or family members that fight against our union. I will. Nothing and I mean absolutely nothing comes before my HUSBAND and OUR FAMILY. I have no tolerance for the rest and when the whole world gets the picture, the better off you will be. 2009 have started wonderful and we have had no PROBLEMS. I am so proud of that so let me repeat that again. WE HAVE NO PROBLEMS. I am back to feeling like we just met and fell in LOVE yesterday. I am so smitten by my King, the ruler of this palace; I quite do not know what do with myself. Love is hard but hell life is hard and it is a pleasure to know I have a BEST FRIEND above all others that have my back. It is amazing how mad we were at each other and when we were threaten, that all fell to the waist side and we ready to fight for US. Yes, US. I know at any day my husband will stand by me regardless if I am wrong or right and he is the only person that is allow to fuss and argue with me. This year is all about a REVOUTION. (*a sudden change*) We have dreams to chase and goals to reach and I thank god I don’t have to do this alone. I can do this with MY HUSBAND, MY BEST FRIEND, MY CLYDE, MY OTHER HALF OF THIS SOUL, and MY KING. As my cousin James say, “I am GROWN.” I am grown and I have grown to know that everyone do not celebrate happiness the same and everyone is not happy for you. This year I am taking to time to be HAPPY and CELEBRATE US. It has been a very long journey for us, from college to a long distance relationship for a couple years, to ending the relationship (several times), to starting all over, and to now MARRIED. We have been through it all and all I can say is GOD IS GOOD AND WATCH HIM WORK. We have a lot of things in the plans for this year. Stay tuned!

The Players Ball – Coming Soon!
Until next time,
Queen Dallas, First Lady of the Douglas Family