Project Marriage and Love

So you want to know what Terick and I been up to? It is easy, enjoying life and each others company and companionship. We just had a water fight last night, not to mention that I started it. It was so fun I must add. He is truly my best friend, and partner in crime. The unscripted Bonnie and Clyde. I will be the first to say it feel so good to be living right and enjoying the joys of what God has in store for us. Why has it been so long since the last blog? It is simple, I been getting so spoiled lately haven’t taken the time to sit down and write about the goodness of love. I was looking at our wedding album and was thinking… wow this was us a few months back. We finally made the ultimate commitment to each other marriage. What a blessing. It was so many doubts in the air, so many untouched fears, that we survived it all. I remember only a few years back when I was down and out and Camellia was like “Dallas, I know you don’t see it, but it will be okay. Keep the ring.” She was the only one fasting and praying when others said move on. (I see me now saying the same thing. Camellia and Kevin, “DO YOU!”) We have some many things to be so thankful for this year we don’t know where to start. I had so many huge plans for this year that God said wait a minute I got something better. So those huge plans had to be pushed back to all the ultimate deliverance. The expansion of the Royal Family. I pray that each of you reading this blog find your happiness. Truly understand it and hold on and let nothing stop you from God’s glory. I commend all my friends in positive and healthy relationships and marriages. In this day and age people don’t encourage marriage and healthily relationships. I do. Everyone deserves to be happy and someone to love them unconditional. It always starts with you loving yourself first. You have to love yourself and understand your heart and desires. Terick soothes me, he sees my soul, raw and unpolished and he loves it all. Good and bad. I do the same for him. Take time to dig in your soul and take a real evaluation of you. It is not too late to get it together and get on Project happiness.

Until next time,
Queen Dallas, proudly of the Douglas Royal Family.

P.S. I almost forgot. The vacation was so much needed; Terick family is so awesome, inspirational, loving and God-fearing. I never felt so comfortable. Not once did I feel out of place, I always felt like I was with family. I can only inspire to have Terick and I family the same. So loving, so very loving. I felt at peace, like this is where I belong. I really didn’t want to leave. It gave me so much though on the future and what will Terick and I will be doing when we age. One of my goals is to ensure that my husband feels the same way with my family. Even though, I seem to be the ultimate black sheep that is no excuse for family to at least not speak and BE SOCIALABLE. It is only my mom side not my dad side, not all of them only a small hand full. So I will pray on it and hopefully my Madea side doesn’t come out.

Reflective thoughts of 2008

For the past two days I have been wondering how I was going to start my blog, I been so excited I haven’t had time to figure out how I was going to start it. As I enter one of my final blogs for 2008. I must take the time out and say thank you Jesus. God is good. (All the time). I am so enjoying my new career and love my co-workers, it is so fun to sit back and have intelligent conversation. Today we went out to eat as a business lunch and I had a good time and enjoyed the warm response. We went out to Spring Creek BBQ on the company and now I am a stuffed bird. As I get more accainted with my new job responsibility, I contacted my glam squad that consists of Tonia and Tiffany and we hit the mall. Can I say how exciting; I haven’t been shopping like that in a long time. I have the official grown and sexy gear now, so picture me rolling. I got the nails and fly hair to match. It felt so good to finally be able to treat myself and also to have fun with my girls. Tonia and Tiffany I really don’t know what I will do without you all. You two really are some true blue friends, through thick and thin, we have prevailed and I pray that you both have a wonderful NEW YEAR and like my husband say NEW BEGINNING. I never knew growing up can be so much fun. I use to always wonder how my life would be and I can truly say I never imagine this. If it was up to me, I would have been still in the music industry and on a wrong path. I have worked for a major radio station, Bad Boy, Rap a lot and Def Jam, and life for me has been a blast. I have lived a dream that none of my recent peers can imagine. I have work with the who’s who and then some and in the same breathe; I was shown that, the life I dreamed was not for me. It is funny how God had it all planned for you. I have truly done a 360 and have a testimony that no one could believe. I lived the life before I was 21 and most of my peers are trying to live something I been there and done that on. The crazy thing I would not change a thing in my past because it has definetly prepared me for today. The fact that I am a private person some of you really don’t know me at all; you only know the transitional me. LOL and I love it that way. People these days are so judgmental and use you past to suppress you or use you and for me I don’t have time for that. All I can focus on is my husband and my family; my whole family. It has been a long time since I have been so happy; you can see my heart melt through my smile and I can not stop smiling. I have been so looking forward to Christmas; it has been insane; my tree really speaks for itself. It is on overload status.
As we go into the New Year with new experiences, drives and goals always remain prayer-filled. I just wanted to share how I loved going to my in-laws this past weekend to drop off gifts. I had a wonderful time and did not want to come back. My mother and father in law is the best in-laws I can ever ask for. My father keeps me cracking up and my mother in is sweet and warm as a fresh baked apple pie. We enjoyed our whole trip and didn’t want to come back , as a matter of fact we didn’t come back until Monday morning at 3am, now how you doing. All I can say is keep reading because you never know what future things the royal family have coming up. Also due to me just being unique the Royal Family will endure a title change for the New Year, coming soon.

Be Blessed,
The one and only Royal Family, King TD and Queen Dallas, Princess Kam and Prince Jay

P.S. Merry Christmas from the Royal Family

My mother in laws Christmas tree..
King TD and Proper Boy

The Head Royal Family; Mr and Mrs. G.D

Just Proof for the haters, my old Bad Boy work jacket.

Part 2 of the reflective thoughts coming soon.......