Thursday, February 24, 2011

Supporting Each Other


This house hunting business is work. Who said it is easy needs to be hunted and drugged down. There is nothing easy about making a 30 year decision on something. There are so many ends and outs that I am so happy to have a right mind and got a realtor that I can trust and out of nowhere she is becoming a good friend to the family. Spiritual minds are alike; because she claimed that we will find my home and be done. So far, the home process is still in the works. The thing that I admire the most is my husband in the process. He is like whatever makes you happy makes me happy. Also, I became nervous and stressed at one point and he held me and instantly I felt calm and secure. I love me some him, I really do. The greatest survival of a relationship is being able to fall in love with the same person over and over again. I truly believe that. A person changes every day and it’s your friendship and love that allows you to fall in love with the new you or person. Today, I had a talk with my senior, a real heart to heart. I clearly advised that my home comes first not this job. I will never get to the point where this job consumes me and I lose my family. My family comes first. My husband will get his time and that is non-negotiable. It’s not that we are not dedicated to our jobs but I am more dedicated to my marriage. He understood and seen where I was coming home. He said that he loves that I stand my ground and how elaquite that I speak of my husband. I was like more of us need to. A lot of marriages will be in better shape. What are your thoughts?

Until next time,
The Douglas Family (Queen Dallas)